How to use a vibrator

Using a vibrator probably seems pretty self-explanatory. After all, aren’t they just for getting off on? However, there is much more to a vibrator than meets the eye. The manufacturer’s instructions can tell you how the product works, but do they tell you how to actually use the vibrator?

Quite often, the answer is no.

1. Getting to know your vibrator


Before we talk about how to use a vibrator, we need to get better acquainted with the product. When your discreetly packaged order from Naughty Passions arrives, take it out of the packaging and have a really good look at it. Take a few minutes to read any manufacturer’s instructions, wash your new toy thoroughly with either soapy warm water or use a toy cleaner. This will remove any residue left behind when manufactured.

Quite a few of our vibrators are usb rechargeable, if your new toy is one of these, charge it fully before you start experimenting with the settings.  If your vibrator is battery operated, check that you have the correct batteries, and that they are inserted the correct way in the battery compartment.

When you’re ready, press the buttons and experiment with the different modes and speeds of vibration. Get really acquainted with the settings and learn how to navigate the product. Are there any features that pique your interest? By playing around with the vibrator, this helps to ensure that your experience with the vibrator is so much more enjoyable as you won’t need scroll through the settings mid-use. 

2. Experiment with your vibrator alone


Vibrators are great fun whether you use them alone or with a partner. However, spending some time alone with your new toy is the best way to get to know the product better. After all, nothing kills passion faster than two people trying to fathom out a complicated vibrator. Instead, lock the doors, relax and spend some alone time with your new toy. Find out what works for you, what doesn’t work for you and which mode of vibration is the one which makes your toes curl! When you know everything there is to know about your vibrator, why not treat your partner to a steamy sex show whilst you show off exactly what you have learnt?

3. Treat your erogenous zones to some loving too…


Instead of focusing solely on the clitoris or G Spot, build up to an intense orgasm by using the vibrator to tease and caress your erogenous zones such as the neck, nipples, inner thighs and labia. This might sound like a strange thing to do, but the tingling sensations are a great way to get yourself in the mood.

4. Don’t rush things


Allowing yourself plenty of time to get acquainted with the vibrator definitely ensures that you get the best out of the product. If your sex toy is also waterproof, experiment in the bedroom, bath and shower, and see how it makes you feel. Does your preference alter depending on where you use it? Is it more exciting in the shower, for example? If this is your first vibrator, start by gently massaging your clitoris with the sex toy on the lowest setting and let your body get used to the thrilling vibrations. Move the vibrator slowly around your body, taking your time to enjoy the different sensations, or hold the product against your clitoris. It’s just a matter of finding out what works for you. A firm favourite for all over body sensations are the vibrating massaging wands.

As you become more accustomed to the vibration, gradually increase the intensity and try out different pleasure modes if the vibrator is multi-speed. Some women may find that they need a stronger setting to climax, whilst others may prefer something a little less intense. For those who climax very quickly but want to prolong their pleasure, seek out the modes that have an increasing and decreasing vibration, or intermittent vibration as these will help to prolong orgasm and increase the intensity of your climax.

5. Using an internal vibrator?


Those using a rabbit vibrator or a G Spot vibrator for the first time may be a little worried about putting something into their vagina. But as long as you purchase a high-quality sex toy from a reputable retailer (like Naughty Passions, ahem), you should be okay. If using the vibrator for anal play, make sure that the product is suitable for anal use and has a flared safety base. This ensures that the vibrator doesn’t travel into your body. After all, nobody wants to make THAT trip to A&E.

For beginners, opting for a slimline vibrator can help to ease you in gently whilst applying a generous helping of lubricant can help to make you feel more comfortable. Insert the vibrator slowly, going at a pace you feel comfortable with. If it helps, spend some time stimulating the clitoris to help you relax and get in the mood. Some women prefer to move the vibrator in and out, whilst others prefer to leave the vibrator in one place as they enjoy the sensations. There is no right or wrong way, just simply whatever works better for you.

6. Taking care of your vibrator


To help your vibrator last longer, you need to care for it properly. Particularly as some people pay a lot of money for a high quality product. With this in mind, here are a few quick tips to help you keep your vibe in tip-top condition.

  • Always wash the vibrator before and after use.
  • Remove batteries between uses.
  • Store in a clean, dry place.
  • Ensure any lubricants that you use are compatible with your new vibrator
  • Always cover sex toys with a condom if sharing with a partner
  • Use a fresh condom for every orifice that you penetrate.

7. Seeking advice about your vibrator


If you are buying a vibrator for the first time, or you aren’t sure which products are compatible with your vibrator. Our helpful customer care team is always on hand to answer any questions that you have about your purchase.

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